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Add a little Love to fix your relationship. Chances are that if you have been in a relationship for more than a few years the fire has burned down or worst its out.What are you to do after the initial fire has died down and, things have settled into a comfortable routine of television and slightly boring nights in.
You know that your lover still loves you; you know that you still love them, but ugh, the rut is getting to you! Lately, you have noticed how sexy that new cashier down at the local grocery store is looking, and surely your lover might have noticed exactly how many times you run down there?
You are content to sit on the couch in ratty sweats with your hair all wild with the person you love, but a trip to get milk entails an entire outfit change, twenty minutes and bam we are ready to impress anything we see out . Looks like trouble is brewing, right?
So, how do we add a little love in this relationship? First, ditch those sweats, baby, and get your game on.Get back to your roots and fire up that burner and get your relationship hot again.You don’t have to be a model everyday but a little self love will burn deep in your lovers eyes.
No one is suggesting that looks equal love,but a little extra time in the bathroom can really stoke that internal flame. Why is it that we will try to look our best with strangers that we will more than likely never see again, while the people that we spend every day with get the laid back look, the people that we claim to love get treated worse than complete strangers?
The old saying is true familiarity breeds contempt. Dress like you did when you were first dating, actually put in the effort to look nice. Use your “people” manners, and hope that it catches on. Smack that butt as you pass, stroke their arm, sneak up behind him and kiss their neck. You remember touching, right? Of coarse you do that’s the things you did not so very long ago.
Look don’t fall into the trap of a date night be spontaneous. You don’t always have to plan what you are doing or where you are going just grab your lover and make up a date as you go try something new that’s how thing were in the beginning.You planed a date or two then you just got together and went and did something maybe a movie and dinner or you went to a friends house to hang out .So don’t go and set up a “date night”.
Any more structure might just choke the last bit of life out of the relationship once and for all. Instead, try making every day like a date. You are with this person because you love them, so act like it. Surprise them with small gifts. Prepare their favorite meals and serve them with a smile. Actual smile when they walk into a room, and let them know that you missed them while they were gone.
Get out some oil and give your partner a massage.Get away from the TV and take up a hobby together. Make it a point to go to bed together and wear something that sets the mood instead of your comfy pajamas. Light a candle and run their bath water, and then come in to wash their back or even better get in and join him. Reach out to them and make the effort as this will go a long way in helping fix your relationship.
Making the effort to fix your relationship like it is something worth working on is better than trying to run off to Spain with the cashier from the store, and believe me, the extra time spent on looking great for your mate is better than spending thousands of dollars on a divorce! This is a great start to getting the flame back in your relationship.
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